intellectually and interpersonally
intellectually and interpersonally
According to Rogers young adults are relatively healthy; however, there could be negative consequences due to unhealthy lifestyles such as smoking, overeating and substance abuse to name a few. Cognitive behavior tends to stabilize in young adulthood and young adults tend to continue to develop intellectually and interpersonally while learning to master their emotions and deal with independence.
According to Jean Piaget most individuals can use logic when thinking when the become teenagers. There is argument that adults may be more sophisticated in ways as they proceed through formal operational thought than in the teen years. It is argued that adults are more reflective and realistic as they gain experience and can apply knowledge to real world situations. For example, as you live life you gain experiences whether it be negative or positive. Once you gain experiences you will possibly know how to respond to future issues based on past experiences.
Young adults continue to develop intellectually and interpersonally while learning to master emotions and they become self-sufficient and responsible for their actions. When you become an adult, you are responsible for your own actions. There are consequences to our actions whether they be positive or negative and we most learn to take responsibility and learn from our actions.
Many young adults have their first long term relationships. When you become a young adult, you must learn to how to settle conflict within the relationships. Some individuals do not know how to settle arguments and it leads to domestic violence also known as intimate violence. According to Rogers domestic violence is exacerbated by the victim’s desire to maintain independence in which the abuser may exploit to keep their partner away from family and friends. According to a survey completed by National Institute of Justice and the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention 1.3 million women and 835,000 men are victims of domestic violence. According to Bureau of Justice Statistics 1/3 of female homicide victims were likely killed by their intimate partner. Females are more likely to be victimized by someone they know. Children who witness domestic violence are at risk of developing into young adults that perpetrate violence, more than likely to become bullies do poor in school and abuse drugs and alcohol.
Sexism involves stereotyping and generalizing about women and men treating then in particular ways based on stereotype. Women tend to have more negative stereotypes than men and feminist argue women have less power. Sexism particularly institutional sexism can create and maintain a cycle of poverty which can contribute to many problems that include mental illness reduced life expectancy and poor physical health.
According to the Ted Talk video Violence against women- it’s a men’s issue men get credit for what women have already been doing. We often blame women asking them why they were wearing what they were wearing or drinking with men. We need to ask questions about the perpetrators such as why to men abuse women. Perpetrators are normal individuals in this world. Men need to stand up and act among other men as when men stand up to other men that may stop the gender violence. The men can be heard saying things women can’t be heard saying. They need to stand with women and not against them. Most male victims are victims of male violence just like women.
In the other Ted Talk Why Domestic Violence victims don’t leave. She talks about her own domestic violence experience and how she was held at gun point by the man she loved. She stated domestic violence happens to everyone and everyone thinks is a women’s issue. Domestic violence is in long term relationships such as in families. In the US ages 16-24 are 3 times more likely to become victims of domestic violence. The first stage is to charm the victim and the second is to isolate the victim. She talks about how her boyfriend came home and quit his job and stated that it is her fault because she made him feel safe and loved and he wanted to leave and start his life over with his girlfriend by his side. The next step is to introduce the threat and see how she reacts. Once she moved to New England her husband bought three guns. He said he needed them because of the trauma he experienced, but they were really a message for her. He attached her 5 days before her wedding and she still married him despite what happened. She still loved him, and he was very sorry for what he did and was stressed out about wedding. She was convinced he was never going to hurt her again. Happened twice on her honeymoon and after her honeymoon. She reported being beat several times a week. 1 in 3 experience domestic violence or stalking some point in their life. She stayed because she didn’t realize he was abusing her. She reported she never thought of herself as a battered wife, but a strong woman married to a trouble man but thought she was the only one who could help him. Victims know its dangerous to leave an abuser because final step is to kill her. Over 70% of domestic violence happens after the victims end the relationship. Other outcomes long term stalking, manipulation and financial issue. Kids are often forced to spend time with the man who beat their mother. She broke the silence and told everyone including the police and her neighbors and they all helped her. Question does she stays is code as it is her fault for staying.
Both Ted Talks give examples of how you can end gender violence/domestic violence. One talks about bystander approach. In that approach you can stand up and act even if not a victim of violence. In the Ted Talk Why don’t victims leave she talks about breaking the silence. She wants everyone to share her story in hopes to end the violence. I liked her statement abuse thrives in silence. We must break the silence and stand up against violence. We need to help victims get out of the situation and not place blame on them. Domestic violence does not discriminate against anyone. As social workers we can help develop policies and programs to advocate for victims of domestic violence.